1. Communicate spiritual expectations (for relationship)
  2. Don’t demand threaten, judge or become to rigid (about spiritual expectations)
  3. Create an environment based on mutual understanding (By decreasing past and present spiritual or religious experiences both good and bad)
  4. Develop your spiritual vision for the relationships (by listing ways that you can meet your partners spiritual needs)
  5. Be affirming and encouragement of your partners efforts to grow spiritually  
  6. Incorporate prayer and meditation into your relationship routine
  7. Seek spiritual graduate from clergy, counselor or therapist (to assist couple in negotiating their spiritual life together)